tl;dr A Forbes.com article Q/A recently stated that job-seekers need to hide the fact that they’ve ever been fired from a position, because of the stigma associated with such an action. I couldn’t disagree more.
First off, as is common for my posts, read the original, so we all know what I’m aruging against. But if you just want the short summary, a reader, “Madelyn”, writes to “Liz” (presumably the Forbes equivalent of a Dear Abbey or something), saying that “You advise people to withhold the fact that they’ve been fired and to make it sound like they left their last job on their own. How can you advise people to be so unprofessional? If someone got fired from a job, they need to say so and they need to explain it.”
“Madelyn” goes on: “Personally, I would never hire anyone who had been fired from a past job. … Maybe some employers are okay with that, but I wouldn’t take a chance on that person. If the person I hired had problems again, I would have to acknowledge that I knowingly hired someone who had already been fired once!”
Why Madelyn is wrong
First of all, it’s clear that both the original poster is making the fundamental assumption that being fired is a “black mark” on your career history. I really don’t agree—the assumption here is that you were fired “for cause”, meaning that your manager had a Really Good Reason to terminate you. That’s hardly always the case—too many times, people are fired (terminated, “let go”, or whatever other non-“fired” word HR cares to use) because of personality conflicts with their boss (which are not always the fault of the individual being considered, aka you), because of personality conflicts with their colleagues (which are not always the fault of the individual, aka you), or even because the company simply doesn’t need that particular department or the excess capacity in that position (a la a merger or acquisition).
Granted, much of the time, that latter scenario is called being “laid off”, and “Madelyn” allows for that as an out: “Maybe they get laid off, but that is a different scenario.” But let’s be really clear about something—in a classic layoff, a company owes some form of severance pay, and most companies are quite loathe to pay that out, so they will simply terminate instead of “lay off”. Case in point: when I worked for Neudesic, I was terminated without severance because the company had taken a huge hit in the form of a client contract termination. There was no “cause”, per se—they simply couldn’t afford to keep me on given that they’d taken this huge blow to their client portfolio.
More to the point, though, a lot of companies will fire an employee for making a mistake of some monumental proportions. In some scenarios, it’s because an employee just keeps making the same mistakes over and over again. Understandable. But in some scenarios, it’s because an employee does something that the company doesn’t want to be potentially liable for—the case of the fast food employee who chooses to give leftover food to homeless, for example, runs the risk of running afoul of the local FDA or health department, so the company terminates that employee for doing something that most of us consider to be a good act, even if it potentially could be termed “theft”. This is really something to be ashamed of? This is really a reason not to hire a candidate—because they chose to act in accordance with a high moral standard (and didn’t realize that doing so was creating problems)?
Why it shouldn’t matter
But perhaps even more to the point, even if the company calls your previous employer to verify your employment, typically your employer will say nothing more than “He/she worked here from this date to that date;” in order to avoid any sort of legal liability, most employers of any size will simply choose not to disclose the reasons for the end of the engagment. (Granted, I suppose it’s always possible that your manager could choose to say something “off the record”, but such things have a nasty way of somehow making it onto the record, which then leaves the company vulnerable to legal liability again; for that reason, most managers are taught pretty strictly not to say anything.)
Which then brings up the point: Why on earth would you bother telling them?
Seriously, beyond the bare facts of your employment history, you need not disclose facts about
your employment past: your manager’s name, your colleagues’ names, your relationship with either
employers or colleagues, your previous hits or misses, your previous salary or benefits, none of it is the interviewing manager’s business! They of course may ask, but you are under no legal obligation (that I’m aware of, anyway) to disclose any of it.
And, given “Madelyn”’s rather medieval opinion on how to judge people, I think it’s in your best interests not to volunteer anything. After all, the interviewer is expecting you to come into the position with a “clean slate”, and not hold any of your previous managers’ mistakes against the company—shouldn’t you be granted the same “clean slate” in turn?
Why you should hire the fired
Most of all, though, those who have been fired have something valuable that their new employer could really use: experience. It is an old adage that says, “Good decisions come from experience; experience comes from bad decisions.” For most people, being fired is not a positive thing, and they will replay the event over and over in their head, looking to learn from it. Personally, I would want the benefit of that experience. What did they learn from it? What can they bring to this position from that prior situation that we can learn from?
If you ever interview with me, let me make it clear: You need not tell me why you were released from that position. (If I forget, and ask that question, you may remind me that you are under no obligation to tell me; quite frankly, you should remind me.) If you choose to tell me that you were fired, I’ll of course be interested to know what you learned from the experience, and how we can apply it to here.
But, of course, I may ask you that question anyway, regardless of whether you were ever fired.
Because, again, how you left your last position really shouldn’t matter a damn.
… is great. (Yes, she agrees with me.) Some excerpts:
- “I definitely advise job-seekers to steer clear of managers who have firm and unshakable stereotypes in their heads, including “Never hire someone who’s been fired from a job! Such managers are not typically people who can inspire others to greatness.”
- “Sometimes speaking up or bucking the status quo gets amazing people fired from their jobs.”
- “You can decide you don’t want to hire people who are too outspoken, creative or non-linear for your taste. That is your privilege.”
- “Getting fired is simply waiting an instant too long to say ‘I quit.’”
Never tell your prospective employer why you left. Because, again, how you left shouldn’t really matter a damn to anyone.